Introduction to Adventures in Parenting
Have you heard the latest advice about parenting?
Of course you have. From experts to other parents, people are always ready to give you parenting advice. Parenting tips, parents? survival guides, dos, don?ts, shoulds, and shouldn?ts?new ones come out every day.
But with so much information available, how can anyone figure out what really works? How do you know whose advice to follow? Isn?t parenting just common sense anyway? How can the experts know what it?s like to be a parent in a real house?
What?s a parent to do?
Try RPM3?a no-frills approach to parenting from the Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD).
For over 30 years, the NICHD has conducted and supported research in parenting and child development. We?ve talked to experts, parents, and children. We?ve collected statistics, identified myths, a...More
Fast Facts: Learn! Fast!
What is the RPM3 approach to parenting?
- The first thing you need to know is that there are no perfect parents.
- Parenting isn't all-or-nothing.
- Successes and mistakes are part of being a parent.
- Start to think about the type of parent you want to be.
- RPM3 stands for:
- Responding to your child in an appropriate manner.
- Preventing risky behavior or problems before they arise.
- Monitoring your child's contact with his or her surrounding world.
- Mentoring your child to support and encourage desired behaviors.
- Modeling your own behavior to provide a consistent, positive example for your child.
- By including responding, preventing, monitoring, mentoring, and modeling in your day-to-day parenting activities, you can become a more effective, consistent, active, and attentive parent.
- Learn how to apply the RPM3 approach if your child is:
News Articles
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Parents Ill-Informed About Kids' Concussion Risks
But most support strict head injury guidelines for school sports, survey shows. More...
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Health Tip: When Kids Have Separation Anxiety
Here's a list of classic symptoms More...
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Health Tip: Why People Get Ear Infections
Some possible causes More...
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Health Tip: Buy a Bike That Suits Your Child
Make sure it's a good fit More...
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Clear Rules, Physical Activity Cut Children's Screen Time
In households where parents set clear and consistent limits on screen time and where children have plenty of physical activity, children have lower odds of exceeding the American Academy of Pediatrics' recommended two-hour daily screen-time limit, according to research published online June 14 in Pediatrics. More...
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Stricter Rules Can Steer Kids Away From TV
And physically active kids watch less television, researchers report. More...
Resources
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Articles
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Adventures in Parenting
- Introduction to Adventures in Parenting
- So where do we start?
- RPM3: How responding, preventing, monitoring, mentoring, and modeling can help you be a successful parent
- Responding
- Prevention
- Monitoring
- Mentoring
- Modeling
- Now what should I do?
- Under 3
- Under 3: Responding
- Under 3: Prevention
- Under 3: Monitoring
- Under 3: Mentoring
- Under 3: Modeling
- Between 4 and 10
- 4 to 10: Responding
- 4 to 10: Prevention
- 4 to 10: Monitoring
- 4 to 10: Mentoring
- 4 to 10: Modeling
- Between 11 and 14
- 11 to 14: Responding
- 11 to 14: Prevention
- 11 to 14: Monitoring
- 11 to 14: Mentoring
- 11 to 14: Modeling
- RPM3 Summary
- References
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Infants: Parenting and Child Development
- Child and Adolescent Development Overview: Infants
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Early Childhood: Parenting and Child Development
- Child and Adolescent Development Overview: Early Childhood
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Adventures in Parenting
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News
- Parents Ill-Informed About Kids' Concussion Risks
- Health Tip: When Kids Have Separation Anxiety
- Health Tip: Why People Get Ear Infections
- Health Tip: Buy a Bike That Suits Your Child
- Clear Rules, Physical Activity Cut Children's Screen Time
- Stricter Rules Can Steer Kids Away From TV
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Questions and Answers
- My Family is Ruining my Relationship With my Boyfriend
- My Boyfriend's Children Won't Accept Me....
- Wife's Behavior
- My 10 Year Old
- 19 Year Old Daughter
- Respect + Anger Managment
- My Husband With Daughter......
- Adult Son Interferes with Our Relationship
- Is This Normal?
- How Do I Get My 24 Year Old Son To A Counselor
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- Is it Inappropriate to Call my Daughter...
- 19 Yr Old Naive Daughter
- Boyfriend's Daughter's Strange Behavior
- Substance Abuse
- How Should I Help?
- Trying to Reconnect With My Ex
- Frequently Snapping Over Little Things!
- Is Our Son's Behavior Indicative of A Mental Health Problem?
- Mom Disowning Me For Dating Another Race
- Daughter In Abusive Marriage
- My 19 Year Old Daughter is Out of Control
- Two Year Old Son Wandered
- Does my Baby Need Him?
- Spitting Four Year Old Boy
- Terrified of Teen
- Marraige Life of my Parents
- Boyfriend Still Acting Like a Bachelor
- I Feel Like I Have Failed - - May 20th 2010
- How Do I Handle This?
- How Do I Help My 4 Year Old Son Show Compasion?
- Afraid of Breaking Family Apart
- 11 Year Old Daughter Jealous of my Boyfriend
- Child Behavior
- What Should I do With my 19 Year-Old Daughter's Anger Issue?
- Personal Hygiene
- First Time Offender
- Parenting a Bipolar Child, Not Quite a Child, Not Quite an Adult
- 5 Year Old Behavior-Is it ADHD or Bipolar or Both?
- Why do I Reject My Boyfriend's Son?
- odd (ADHD)
- Help or Do Nothing?
- 16 year old girl with Attention Deficit Disorder
- Desperately Mother - Gloria
- My child needs help
- Pregnant Again
- 4 year old depression
- A Mom In Need of Help
- Help my son with his morbid jealous girlfriend, get him out.
- Should I be worried?
- A child with a bad attitude
- I feel ugly
- Giving Up - Dad of three - Sep 15th 2008
- SHOULD GRANDPARENTS INSIST ON SEEING A GRANDCHILD
- Granddaughter needs help before I send her home
- My husband no longer believes
- HELP ME!!!
- Am I depressed?
- young teen response to death and grief
- MY son said he hears voices and whispers
- My needy son hates my boyfriend. How can I avoid choosing one over the other?
- Does my husband love his daughter more than me (his wife)?
- Bipolar and children
- can 7-yo boy have antisocial personality disorder?
- Pregnant with bipolar
- Should I get involved?
- 19 Year Old Daugter--Out of control
- I miss my daughter
- How do I empty the nest gently?
- Anxiety in children
- Dad will shoot through hoops.
- Does My Child Have A Mental Problem?
- Heartbroken Mom
- mothers who sleep with their sons
- Explaining Divorce To Children
- Working Mother Wants To Stay Home
- Protecting Children From Their Grandmother
- Physically Abusive Mentally Ill Son
- Missing the Children
- Scared Of Her Reaction
- Failing My Daughter
- Bipolar Parenting
- Perfectionistic Son
- Problem Child
- Helping Someone with Bipolar Disorder
- Overburdened Mom
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Book & Media Reviews
- A Little Pregnant
- About a Boy
- Anxious Parents
- Avalanche
- Bounce
- Bringing Up Parents
- But I Love Him
- Children of the Self-Absorbed
- Cyber-Safe Kids, Cyber-Savvy Teens
- Done With The Crying
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- Exiting Nirvana
- Families Like Mine
- Family Bound
- Feeding Your Child
- Find Me
- For Lesbian Parents
- Inside the American Couple
- Intrusive Parenting
- Lizzy's Do's and Don'ts
- Love Works Like This
- Misconceptions
- Mommies Who Drink
- Mothers Who Kill Their Children
- Motherstyles
- Myths of Childhood
- No One Cares About Crazy People
- No Two Alike
- NurtureShock
- Ophelia's Mom
- Parenting and the Child's World
- Parenting Children With ADHD
- Parenting on the Go
- Parenting Your Out-Of-Control Teenager
- Praising Boys Well
- Praising Girls Well
- Problem Child or Quirky Kid?
- Raising a Self-Starter
- Raising America
- Raising Elijah
- Raising Kids in an Age of Terror
- Raising Kids in the 21st Century
- Raising Resilient Children
- Spiritually Healing the Indigo Children (and Adult Indigos, Too!)
- Stop Arguing with Your Kids
- Strong, Smart, & Bold
- Survival Strategies for Parenting Children with Bipolar Disorder
- Surviving a Borderline Parent
- The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander
- The Educated Parent
- The Epidemic
- The Gay Baby Boom
- The Gender Trap
- The Nurture Assumption
- The Other Parent
- The Psychology of Parental Control
- The Reflective Parent
- The Right to Be Parents
- The Secret Lives of Boys
- Two Is Enough
- What in the World Are Your Kids Doing Online?
- What Our Children Teach Us
- Worried All the Time
- Yes, Your Teen Is Crazy!
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Self-Help Groups
- Triplet Connection
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Links
- [3] Articles
- [7] Associations
- [2] Community
- [4] Government
- [32] Information
- [37] Videos
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Videos
- Positive Behavior Support: Making Clear and Effective Requests
- Monitoring and Limit Setting: Clear Rules
- Bullying Prevention: Lessons from Research and Practices
- Boys & HPV Vaccine
- Accident Proofing Kids
- Teaching Kids to Get Moving
- Kids and Brain Strain
- Risks in Delaying Childhood Vaccinations
- Are Kids Getting Enough Sleep?
- Most Kid's Fevers, No Worries
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- Guidance for Uncertain Times: Mindful Parenting
- Dipping into Swim Safety
- Sick Kids: Viral vs. Bacterial
- Focusing your Children on Fitness
- Parents Slow to Recognize Obese Children
- Monitoring and Limit Setting: Privilege Removal
- 3 Easy Tips to Get Children Active
- NAMI's Ask the Doctor Calls--Dialectical Behavior Therapy
- All in On Water Safety
- Finding Effective Mental Health Treatment for Children
- Helping Children with Divorce
- Preventing Death by Suicide-Strategies to Help Children, Youth and Families
- Vaccines: Separating Myth from Reality
- Back to School: Dr. Stephen Whiteside on Routines
- Dr. Bridget Biggs on Bullying
- Weight Control For Children: Improving Physical Activity
- How to Talk to Teens: A Developmental Approach
- 6 Top Tips for Parents
- Bipolar Mom Struggles With The Daily Routine
- Get Moving: Simple Ways to Improve Physical and Mental Health
- Stop the Chaos! Tips for Creating a Peaceful Household When Mom has ADHD
- Common Childhood Illnesses & Immunizations
- Positive Parenting & Promoting Mental Health
- Childhood Obesity & Healthy Eating
- Home life when Mom or Dad has ADHD: Succeeding with your family
- The Long term Impacts of Bullying
- Preventing Childhood Obesity
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More Information
- Wise Counsel Interview Transcript: An Interview with Amy J. L. Baker, Ph.D. on Parental Alienation
- Wise Counsel Interview Transcript: An Interview with Annie Fox on Parenting 21st Century Teens
- Wise Counsel Interview Transcript: An Interview with Marsha Temlock, MA on Adult Child Divorce
- Wise Counsel Interview Transcript: An Interview with Sarah Chana Radcliffe, M.Ed., C.Psych.Assoc. on Raising Kids without Raising Your Voice
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- Childhood Mental Disorders and Illnesses
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- Internet Addiction and Media Issues
- Child Development & Parenting: Infants (0-2)
- Child Development & Parenting: Early (3-7)
- Child Development & Parenting: Middle (8-11)
- Child Development Theory: Middle Childhood (8-11)
- Childhood Special Education
- Child & Adolescent Development: Puberty
- Child Development Theory: Adolescence (12-24)
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Child & Adolescent Development: Overview
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Child Development & Parenting: Early (3-7)
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Child Development & Parenting: Infants (0-2)
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Child Development & Parenting: Middle (8-11)
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Child Development & Parenting:Adolescence (12-24)
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Child Development Theory: Adolescence (12-24)
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Child Development Theory: Middle Childhood (8-11)
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Childhood Mental Disorders and Illnesses
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Childhood Special Education
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Divorce
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Depression: Depression & Related Conditions
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