Depressed Boyfriend

My boyfriend of 8 years has not worked since April 2000 due to a depression. He now tells me that he is not sure if he wants to continue this relationship or not. He asked me to give him some time to find himself and give me an answer. It has already been 4 weeks and I am having a terrible time try to cope with this. I am now taking anxiety pills and seeing a psychologist to help me through this. He says he has no feeling for anyone or anything - is he stringing me a line?

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